Change the Voice in Your Head: How Self-Talk Shapes Your Health, Stress & Success

Jul 23, 2025 | Podcast

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Summary:

In this episode of the Stamina Lab podcast, co-founders Glen Lubbert and Dr. Deborah Teplow discuss how our internal dialogue shapes our choices, influences stress levels, and affects our physical well-being.

They delve into the importance of transforming negative self-talk into positive affirmations, the significance of a growth mindset, and practical strategies to enhance self-talk. The discussion emphasizes the role of present moment awareness and externalizing self-talk to foster a healthier self-perception and emotional resilience.

Takeaways:

  • Self-talk is a powerful force that shapes our choices.
  • Negative phrases like ‘I can’t’ can sabotage progress.
  • A growth mindset encourages trying despite challenges.
  • Present moment awareness helps in managing anxiety.
  • Transforming self-talk can improve mental health.
  • Externalizing feelings can help separate identity from emotions.
  • Positive psychology offers tools for better self-talk.
  • Mindfulness practices can enhance self-awareness.
  • Recognizing the impact of self-talk on behavior is crucial.
  • Experimenting with self-talk can lead to personal growth.

Timestamps:

  • 00:00 The Power of Self-Talk
  • 02:45 Understanding Growth Mindset
  • 05:29 Transforming Negative Self-Talk
  • 07:58 The Role of Present Moment Awareness
  • 10:57 Externalizing Emotions and Identity
  • 13:51 Practical Strategies for Positive Self-Talk

 

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